When someone you love passes away, there are a lot of decisions to be made and honouring them in a special way is part of the grieving process. The first step in your organisation is to understand your options. These include wakes, receptions and memorials. But what exactly is a wake? And what’s the difference between a funeral, vs memorial vs wake? Rest assured that we have you covered. Here’s everything you need to know.
What is a Wake?
A wake or viewing provides a chance for you to pay your respects to your loved one, and for friends and family to share their condolences. They are flexible and allow you the freedom to choose what you and your loved one would have wanted. This could be during or after the funeral, could provide friends and family a moment alone with them, and could take place either in the funeral home or elsewhere.
What is the wake at a funeral?
When a wake is held at the funeral itself, this will usually consist of friends and family forming a line to share with you how they knew your loved one and offer their condolences. A moment could be offered with the departed so they can pay their respects.
What is the wake after a funeral?
The wake after the funeral is a more informal gathering of friends and family to share memories about the departed. It offers the opportunity to celebrate your loved one and grieve with others that are also mourning their passing. This could be held at the family home, at a local bar or restaurant or an event space depending on the number of attendees. The wake after the funeral is also known as a reception.
What is a Wake vs a Funeral?
The funeral ceremony is held before the burial or cremation of your loved one and can vary greatly depending on your religion and culture. In a Christian funeral, for example, you might choose a sermon from a priest, hymns and bible readings. In a Muslim funeral, you’ll choose specific funeral prayers known as Salat al-Janazah. For Atheist funerals, you could choose readings, speeches from family members and songs.
What is a Memorial Service?
In contrast to wakes and funeral services, a memorial service is often more informal, and your loved one is not present. These are often held after the cremation or burial has taken place and are intended to honour the departed. This showering of love from family and friends can create a very special moment and have a lasting impact on your grieving journey. It provides the opportunity to celebrate the life of your loved one and hear eulogies from their nearest and dearest.
Honour Your Loved One with Gardenia Funeral Home
Do you want to find out more about how you can honour your loved one in the right way? Get in touch with the team at Gardenia Funeral Home today by calling (03) 9329 4024 or emailing info@gardeniafunerals.com.au.